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Module 1. Read (The Behaviour Cipher)
Behaviour makes more sense when you know how to read the code underneath it.
Parent tension → Why does the same parenting response work one day and fail the next?
Common mistake → Using the same response regardless of nervous system state.
Child wants ice cream for breakfast, sibling conflict; 2. One sibling whacks another; 3. Complete emotional shutdown.
Key insights
Introduction to behaviour as communication,
proactive vs reactive behaviour,
intensity levels,
Match the parenting response to the behaviour presentation and emotional intensity.
Introduce Cipher Quadrants
Using the tool: Pause and identify intensity and behavioural intent before responding.
Outcome: Parents feel more objective and less reactive.