IN THIS LESSON

Parents have never had more parenting advice available, yet many feel less confident than ever.

Trends from the clinic

Founder story →

Starting career in specialist setting; inspired by the approaches we used there to resolve behaviour and increase connection. Generalised to families in private practice.

Beyond testing these tools in clinic, becoming a Dad enabled me to walk the talk first hand as a parent.

Parenting tension →

How do I know if I’m being too harsh or too soft? Constantly second guessing themselves during emotional moments.

Two different cases: same common theme >

Parents feeling guilty both for holding boundaries and for giving in.

Stats on parenting experiences of guilt

Children need warmth and structure, not perfection.

The Compass overview →

Cipher - use in every situation > Re-establishing boundaries > Responding to proactive vs reactive behaviour > Regulating when things become intense > Repairing the relational ruptures

How to use the course →

Essential to complete the Behaviour Cipher first because it is the foundation of understanding each subsequent model.

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Emotional reassurance:

No matter what your default parenting style is, this course will provide you the tools to round out your responses to create emotional safety and connection with your child.

  • Our downloads have everything you need to supplement this course.